Wednesday, April 2, 2008

QUESTION TIME


How soon is too soon to have sex in a relationship?????

I will be back

Best regards,

Ms.Emotions

12 comments:

Anonymous said...

as soon as you've known each other a little better, trusted each other, respected each other, appreciated each other and been content with each other. and as soon as every one of you is ready. this can be one month, two, three, e.t.c even two weeks. you just have to be sure that every one is ready and happy if you want something beautiful out of it!!!

ps: how you doin gal??

Anonymous said...

oh...am first....yaaaaay!!!!!

Aspiring nigerian woman said...

does not really matter. Neema divine gave you the common sense version of it. Did the deed less than a month after I met my man, dated by 2.5yrs and happily married now.

There is no hard or fast rule.

ShadeCrown said...

yup like someone said.. it doesnt really matter. 1st date, 10th date, 1000th date 1000000th date, same shyt, different toilet i say! Whatever rocks ya boat :)

P.S abstinence is the key..well (until ure married) or so they say.. LOL

NaijaScorpio said...

A week is too soon in my opinion. Sex usually complicates things esp if one person is not in the relationship for the right reason.

Tandra said...

.dito on everything every one has said..

esp. the abstinance thingy ((grins))

doll (retired blogger) said...

when both of you are ready....no regrets

Anonymous said...

Before marriage is too soon

O'Dee said...

This ur questions sha.
Me I dnt know oh, mine is dnt av sx wit a man who isnt planning 2 marry u or who u dnt want 2 marry.

its easy to say wait till u get married, but wat is getting married after u guys av had an introduction.

Me I cant ansr this question jo.

Tinu said...

mehn the both of u are ready...a week..a month!! just make sure the channels for communication is open!!

Sherri said...

there are basic rules, most people just choose to ignore them.

females shud be very careful when it relates to sex.
ok! i won't preach.
but, i will hope one wud want to know someone if not well, a little b/4 having sex or even exchanging body fluids with anyone.
even three months is too soon(my opinion)
females can save themselves a great deal of heartache if only they cud just be a lot cautious.

it's not about the male's or anyone's perception, i know some female do this cos they don't want to be perceived as "easy" but it shud be about prudence.

AJIKE said...

Its funny how everyone is trying to be careful so they don't get people upset!...hahaha...b4 they say hmm holy holy sister don come again oooo..hmm, we human beings self...lol

anyway my own be say,if you no want make your heart break just prevent am, but your heart go still break nah if brother go look for am from somebody else, but that one go still mean say e no be ure own, e good as e don take style waka go.....

Ayhoo i personally *notice, its my own opinion oooo*, think waiting till after marriage is the best thing to do as it's what God wants us to do. However its a difficult one to follow by hmmm!...may God help us ooo.