Ms. emotions: February 2011

What makes a relationship successful?

As always, put God first....it works
define your relationship from day 1
ensure you ask questions as regards wat he/she wants from the relationship
Forget the baggages from your previous relationships
get to know what works for you, i.e how often would you want to meet, call etc.
honesty...it counts, you wont want to say A today and then B tomorow would you?
if he/she is serious about you, meeting his folks or yours shouldnt be a problem you know?
Just relax and enjoy it, stop being overtly curious or suspicious or too fast to pass judgement
keep a tradition that works for you , sometimes stir the pot by deviating from it or them sometimes
keep your mind open to learnin..
lets always recognise the element of risk and make provision for it, i.e safe guard your heart untill you know for sure if the relationship has come to stay