Thursday, November 20, 2008

His friends………how do they relate with you?

How a man presents you to his friends determines how they treat you yeah? No?

Am of the opinion that from the way a man presents you to his friends you will be able to tell how much he loves you and what he is up to.

Men show their love differently, while some of them are very passionate when they love, some just love, though one may be tempted to say it all about luck, but I strongly believe it has to do with YOU.

Now, in the early days of your relationship, what sort of impression / vibes were you giving out to him when it came to love?

Some of us unknown to us portray ourselves as those not capable of reciprocating love or actually receiving and treasuring love in a bid to prove that we are independent. This is usually seen during the early days of a relationship, those periods when you are bent on ‘making him see the need to stick with you’?

Like I explained in one of my previous posts, a man knows exactly what he wants from you the moment he sets his eyes on you, it dose not really matter how hard you try to win him over, he has an impression already when he approached you, however, he also pays attention to some minor details which serve to either encourage him or discourage him completely. In other words, there really is no need giving out the ‘ice queen’ vibe as this goes along way to determine the kind of love your man will have for you or do I say it goes a long way to determine how sensitive your man will be showing his love.

Your first and subsequent meeting with his friends gives away what he really feels for u, cos, whether you like it or not he has ‘presented’ you to his friends long before you met them.

so always be on your guard when u meet with his friends the very first time, are they very respectful and refrain from all forms of male banters? or otherwise? Do they have this sheepish looks on their faces?

Its ur call, you decide what you do next,

Ms. Emotions was unavoidably away due to some private matters I cant disclose here, but its not a problem, just something that needed to take me away for a while, me and mine are well, how have you all been? and yours?
Four the past 13hours I been ‘around’ cant find afrobabe???
Iyawo oluwadee is very well I know, fff has gone what ….well an author…lol, nice work, the rest of my blog fam, am visiting soonest,

Compliments of the season!!!!


LG said...


QMoney said...

LG,stalker of d year.....welocome back!!!

aloted said...

she's back!!! welcome

let me go and read

aloted said...

so what of in cases where he conveinently does not introduce u to his friends...

yawa be that o

FFF said...

lmao @ fff has gone author. needed 2 spice up my blog a bit. i was taking ur advise, guess which one it is. i dey look 4 afrobabe myself. we've sent out search party plus P.I, but nothing yet. u r highly welcome, dear

talk abt playing d ice queen! My God, i always find dat very irritating wen i see it in movies - like really!!!! maybe 2 decades ago dat behaviour was IT, not anymore

FFF said...

if they have a sheepish look on their faces, what does dat say?

NigerianDramaQueen said...

Ms.Emotions so glad to have you back! It's been such a long time. Glad you and your beloved are both well.

I completely agree that a man knows exactly what he wants to do with you the minute he sets eyes on you. Also, the way he introduces you to his family/friends is very telling. True stuff!

I've been looking for Afrobabe too oh! The babe just dissappeared!

Glad your back!

Aphrodite said...

Welcome back babes. Missed u plenty.
Thanks for the encouragement on my blog.

Sha said...

welcome bak.
lovely pist as usual..enjoyed reading it.
lol @ sheepish look.

rethots said...

"...he has ‘presented’ you to his friends long before you met them."

Spot-on Dr. (oops, Ms.), he surely has presented her to his friends long before the meeting; and they in return have an opinion about you. The ball is in her court, to affirm their +ve opinions or disprove their -ve opinions.

As per the him, "...not really matter how hard you try to win him over,..." so, she needs not over proof herself. If he liked not what her saw (initially), trust he would not have chased.

Hold up your heads high ladies.

darkelcee said...

welcome back dearie,
When his friend has this sheepish looks on their faces.... pray tell what does it mean?

Fanwest said...

Welcome back girl..., how do u respond when they have that sheepish look, or crack their jokes... in more detail please... really nice piece you put up here.


wow! you are back? Praise be to the Lord most high!!!

(It is Sunday, after all, you can't blame me for catching the 'Spirit. lol!)

Jinta said...

you're right, however, if he has many 'friends', it is a big maturity problem. unfortunately, some girls jugde a man'sappeal by the size of his posse

Emeka Amakeze said...

Not every man has a clear cut decision of what he wants from a woman the moment he sets his eyes on her. Some might seem in charge but are subtly guided by the women. He often assumes what the woman would want. Would she think i'm a mugu if i don't make my moves? would she think i'm not a man if i don't have sex with her? Tose are some of the questions that plague some men and giude their actions. But then, a whole just scream sex once they set their eyes on anything in skirt.

Afrobabe said...

l;ol..Afrobabe is back oh...and unlike ur own awol...mine was caused by plenty problem...

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