Friday, September 21, 2007

EMOTIONAL FULFILLMENT

Emotional fulfillment is a state of being content with who you perceive yourself to be. It is a feeling of completeness, being content with all that makes you “you”, your failure and success. It is an emotionally induced feeling which deep within your hearts of heart you are able to tell weather or not you feel fulfilled.

Emotional fulfillment comes with you having a sense of achievement, appreciation and the need to be you and do what makes you happy. i.e. you being heard and appreciated, you giving luv and not necessarily looking to receive luv( a lot of us don’t know that giving luv leaves you open to receiving luv), feeling obligated to help others without looking to be thanked for it, ( helping others naturally brings help your way, especially when you do so unconsciously, it kind of makes you fell good).
Emotional fulfillment is never about being in a great relationship, being happily married or being successful No! It has to do with coming to terms with your failures and seeing it as one of those things that makes you human and having the resolve to give it another shot; it is about knowing what your emotional needs are and working towards achieving them.

In my last post, I talked about a beauty personified lady, that’s a true beauty that has got all and everything to offer the world, yet she doesn’t feel emotionally fulfilled likewise a great dude that’s got almost all the good things in life yet he remains unhappy because he knows he doesn’t feel fulfilled emotionally. But how can we truly feel fulfilled when we cannot even identify what our emotional needs are? When we do not know what being fulfilled emotional is?

Emotional needs and how to fulfill them

some of our emotional needs are, getting and giving attention, having a sense of achievement and purpose, the need to be heard and understood, the need to help and be helped, the need to be appreciated and loved( while showing luv to those around us) and the need for security.

Being emotionally fulfilled

You can only be emotionally fulfilled when you begin to accept who you are and know what your emotional needs are. A lot of us think that emotional fulfillment comes with being in luv, this is not true as you can be in luv yet unfulfilled emotionally.
The earlier to understand what our needs are emotionally and begin to work towards achieving them, the sooner we will find that we are emotionally fulfilled after all.


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